First off a warm

to
@fcarbon.
I don't have a MP yet! but am familiar with van fresh water tanks.
The usual solution to removing the tank cap is to make a tool from a wooden batten or such so you can get more purchase, as mentioned by
@Grand Tourismo above you just need more leverage.
I'm not sure why you'd want to open the tank to let it dry out, the whole system, pipes and taps etc needs to be dry to stop any bacterial growth. I doubt removing the tank cap would achieve that.
All the advice regarding overwintering to avoid frost damage is pertinent but I feel the stoping bacterial growth is more to the point.
Some use citric acid to clean their water systems, available cheaply in bulk on eBay. A motorhome compatible product is probably the best and
Puriclean Tabs is what I use. Milton will probably be ok in simple systems like on the MP, but it contains chemicals that could possibly damage things like on board boilers the some vans have.
I clean my tank once or twice a year with Puriclean, I don't 'air' the tank but drain to prevent frost damage. I'll happily clean my teeth, boil the tank water for cups of tea, coffee, spuds or pasta. But if I want a drink, that will be a beer from in the fridge, failing that some mineral water
